I am a 38 year old married guy looking to explore a bit. What am I looking for?

Someone that is willing to explore and not be pushy.
Someone that can host. I cannot host and do not do public bathrooms or cars.
Someone eager to help ME explore in finding what I like and don’t like. This could mean you do not get a bj.
I am not looking to be banged. I would be the top if the vibe is lekker and the opportunity presents itself.
Preferably in Centurion.
Ideal match would be a bi male with a possibility of a MFM later on.